I was married, had a son, and divorced when my ex cheated. We got over our personal feelings to each other however and now have a great, very amicable, parenting relationship. He's remarried, with a kid, and I really like his wife. We all get along and it's pretty much the ideal situation for a split family.
I met someone when my son was small, and was with him for nearly six years. We had some great times together and he bonded with my son. We had amazing chemistry, joked in only a way that we could together, and made lots of memories during the time we spent together.
But he was very emotionally immature. He still lived with his parents, was still taking courses, had a bad temper, and wouldn't participate as much as I wanted him to in my son's life because he didn't want to be around my son's dad. Our relationship just wasn't progressing because of his issues.
I finally had enough and left, and have since met a single dad who has kids of a similar age, gets my situation, is independent and mature. I really like him, but my ex is not making it easy for me to move on.
He's now doing everything I'd wanted him to do when we were together--getting his own place, seeing a counsellor, etc. and obviously after as long as we spent together, I still feel an attachment to him. I feel bad that my son grew up loving him and he is no longer around us. I also struggle with all the memories we made in our almost six years together.
I'm in a good place with my new man, but I'm wondering if I'm making the right choice by being with him...or if I should be giving my ex another chance given our history together? Can he really change his ways for the long term? I just don't know what the best situation is for my son and I and I'm scared to make the wrong choice.
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